Mark 3:20 – 35
I was watching the TV show Downton Abbey the other day with Lucy. It takes place in pre-World War 1 England. It seems quaint to us to see a society where everybody had his or her own station, and knew just what society expected of them, whether they were a housemaid or a duke. And when one of the housemaids dared to buy herself a typewriter because she wanted a career as a typist, consternation arose all around! She was not following the script, the plan for her life that society had decreed!
We feel our society is not so rigid, and indeed it is not. Yet there are still scripts that are given to us by society, by our families and our employers. And woe betide us if we fail to follow the script, if we write our own scripts, or follow a different script! Many families have been thrown into confusion when a daughter becomes pregnant without being married, or if a son declares that he is gay. They are not following the script. People become distressed and anxious, and even angry, when the approved script is not followed.
In our Gospel today, Jesus is not following the script. Different people had different expectations of him, and he wasn't following any of their scripts. He wasn't raising an army to become the kind of military king some people wanted. He certainly wasn't being a good Jewish boy and marrying a nice girl and settling down and building up his carpentry shop. He wasn't supporting his widowed mother the way the eldest son was supposed to. He wasn't following the right script.
And so his family comes to take him home, to put an end to the craziness, to get him back on track again. And the Jewish authorities speak against him, warning people that he can't be the Messiah, because he is not following the right Messiah script.
Whenever we deviate from the script other people think we should be following, strong negative feelings are thrown at us. I'm sure you have experienced this in your own life. Either other people criticized you harshly for your behaviour, or you have criticized others for their behaviour. Because we all do it. It's one way that society tries to make people conform to what is considered normal behaviour.
And sometimes it's good, maybe most of the time it's good. We frown on bullying. When someone is verbally or physically abusive, we bring the full force of law down on them. When someone is wasting their money on addictions or gambling , familes resort to interventions, to bring them to their senses and impress upon them the damage they are doing, not only to themselves, but to the ones they love. This is what Jesus' family thought they were doing.
But sometimes, the script needs changing. Sometimes the way it's always been done is not the right way for this time and this place and this person. Sometimes God has a different script.
In our first lesson we see a clear distinction between God's script and the people's script. God wants Israel to be a different kind of nation, a nation that does not depend on the leadership of a king, but the leadership of God. But the people want to follow the script that all the other nations are following; they want a king. And so they get a king.
And in our Gospel, Jesus is writing a different script, too. It is a script where God has power over the forces of evil. It is a script where people who do the will of God are bound together in a family that is even stronger than a family bound by blood. It is a script which in the end will result in his death. And in his resurrection.
We all have a choice as to what script we will follow. Will we follow the script our families and society have given us? Or will we follow God's script? They are not always the same. And especially when God changes the script on us, there is hell to pay. We will face a great deal of doubt and opposition. Tempers will flare and harsh words will be said. There may even be ruptures in family relations. Sometimes it may seem that it is just not worth it.
God is changing the script in the world right now. For 500 years the Lutheran church has followed a certain script, a certain way of being the church in the world. This is what we grew up in, this is what we are used to and what we want. But it's not working any more. God has changed the script. God is pushing us to become a different kind of church.
Now this leads to a lot of confusion, doubt, anger and dissension. Even last Sunday we witnessed this. And what makes it worse is that it is hard to agree on what the script should be, even if we agree that the old script is not working any more.
It is easy to look at the story of Jesus and his family and see so clearly that Jesus was right and Jesus was following God's script. And it is easy to look back at Samuel and his contemporaries and see that it might have gone a lot better for them if they had paid attention to Samuel and played it according to God's script. I'm sure a hundred years from now people will look back at our struggles and clearly see that what we have done is right, or that we really missed the boat. I wonder which!
But whatever happens, we have to remember that the script we are to follow, is the same script that Jesus followed. We follow the script of reaching out to the hurting and lost. We follow the script of giving of ourselves in the face of criticism and scorn. When we were baptized, we were baptized into Jesus' death so that we would also participate in his resurrection. As Paul puts it, “We know that the one who raised the Lord Jesus will raise us also with Jesus, and will bring us with you into his presence. Yes, everything is for your sake, so that grace, as it extends to more and more people, may increase thanksgiving, to the glory of God. So we do not lose heart.” Now that is a very important point, because it is all too easy to lose heart when we are faced with confusion and doubt.
Paul goes on: “Even though our outer nature is wasting away, our inner nature is being renewed day by day.” You could also say that of our congregation. Our outer nature is surely wasting away: our finances are faltering, our average attendance is slipping; but our inner nature does not depend on these external signs. The life of this congregation is still strong, the love we have for each other sustains us, and the hope for the future which God is giving us is carrying us along.
God has a future planned for us; a future with hope. God is guiding us to discover how we can move into that future. Between us, we and God are writing a new script for Our Saviour's Lutheran Church, a script that is loving and welcoming and challenging and inspiring. Thanks be to God! Amen.
I was watching the TV show Downton Abbey the other day with Lucy. It takes place in pre-World War 1 England. It seems quaint to us to see a society where everybody had his or her own station, and knew just what society expected of them, whether they were a housemaid or a duke. And when one of the housemaids dared to buy herself a typewriter because she wanted a career as a typist, consternation arose all around! She was not following the script, the plan for her life that society had decreed!
We feel our society is not so rigid, and indeed it is not. Yet there are still scripts that are given to us by society, by our families and our employers. And woe betide us if we fail to follow the script, if we write our own scripts, or follow a different script! Many families have been thrown into confusion when a daughter becomes pregnant without being married, or if a son declares that he is gay. They are not following the script. People become distressed and anxious, and even angry, when the approved script is not followed.
In our Gospel today, Jesus is not following the script. Different people had different expectations of him, and he wasn't following any of their scripts. He wasn't raising an army to become the kind of military king some people wanted. He certainly wasn't being a good Jewish boy and marrying a nice girl and settling down and building up his carpentry shop. He wasn't supporting his widowed mother the way the eldest son was supposed to. He wasn't following the right script.
And so his family comes to take him home, to put an end to the craziness, to get him back on track again. And the Jewish authorities speak against him, warning people that he can't be the Messiah, because he is not following the right Messiah script.
Whenever we deviate from the script other people think we should be following, strong negative feelings are thrown at us. I'm sure you have experienced this in your own life. Either other people criticized you harshly for your behaviour, or you have criticized others for their behaviour. Because we all do it. It's one way that society tries to make people conform to what is considered normal behaviour.
And sometimes it's good, maybe most of the time it's good. We frown on bullying. When someone is verbally or physically abusive, we bring the full force of law down on them. When someone is wasting their money on addictions or gambling , familes resort to interventions, to bring them to their senses and impress upon them the damage they are doing, not only to themselves, but to the ones they love. This is what Jesus' family thought they were doing.
But sometimes, the script needs changing. Sometimes the way it's always been done is not the right way for this time and this place and this person. Sometimes God has a different script.
In our first lesson we see a clear distinction between God's script and the people's script. God wants Israel to be a different kind of nation, a nation that does not depend on the leadership of a king, but the leadership of God. But the people want to follow the script that all the other nations are following; they want a king. And so they get a king.
And in our Gospel, Jesus is writing a different script, too. It is a script where God has power over the forces of evil. It is a script where people who do the will of God are bound together in a family that is even stronger than a family bound by blood. It is a script which in the end will result in his death. And in his resurrection.
We all have a choice as to what script we will follow. Will we follow the script our families and society have given us? Or will we follow God's script? They are not always the same. And especially when God changes the script on us, there is hell to pay. We will face a great deal of doubt and opposition. Tempers will flare and harsh words will be said. There may even be ruptures in family relations. Sometimes it may seem that it is just not worth it.
God is changing the script in the world right now. For 500 years the Lutheran church has followed a certain script, a certain way of being the church in the world. This is what we grew up in, this is what we are used to and what we want. But it's not working any more. God has changed the script. God is pushing us to become a different kind of church.
Now this leads to a lot of confusion, doubt, anger and dissension. Even last Sunday we witnessed this. And what makes it worse is that it is hard to agree on what the script should be, even if we agree that the old script is not working any more.
It is easy to look at the story of Jesus and his family and see so clearly that Jesus was right and Jesus was following God's script. And it is easy to look back at Samuel and his contemporaries and see that it might have gone a lot better for them if they had paid attention to Samuel and played it according to God's script. I'm sure a hundred years from now people will look back at our struggles and clearly see that what we have done is right, or that we really missed the boat. I wonder which!
But whatever happens, we have to remember that the script we are to follow, is the same script that Jesus followed. We follow the script of reaching out to the hurting and lost. We follow the script of giving of ourselves in the face of criticism and scorn. When we were baptized, we were baptized into Jesus' death so that we would also participate in his resurrection. As Paul puts it, “We know that the one who raised the Lord Jesus will raise us also with Jesus, and will bring us with you into his presence. Yes, everything is for your sake, so that grace, as it extends to more and more people, may increase thanksgiving, to the glory of God. So we do not lose heart.” Now that is a very important point, because it is all too easy to lose heart when we are faced with confusion and doubt.
Paul goes on: “Even though our outer nature is wasting away, our inner nature is being renewed day by day.” You could also say that of our congregation. Our outer nature is surely wasting away: our finances are faltering, our average attendance is slipping; but our inner nature does not depend on these external signs. The life of this congregation is still strong, the love we have for each other sustains us, and the hope for the future which God is giving us is carrying us along.
God has a future planned for us; a future with hope. God is guiding us to discover how we can move into that future. Between us, we and God are writing a new script for Our Saviour's Lutheran Church, a script that is loving and welcoming and challenging and inspiring. Thanks be to God! Amen.
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